Nikki Glaser has never been one to keep her private life private. As one of the most brutally honest voices in comedy, her relationship status is often a central theme in her stand-up sets, podcast episodes, and late-night appearances. For over a decade, the man at the center of that narrative has been Chris Convy. While their relationship has been anything but a straight line, as of early 2026, the two remain one of the most fascinating and resilient couples in the entertainment industry.

The man behind the scenes: Who is Chris Convy?

To understand Nikki Glaser’s love life, you have to understand Chris Convy. Unlike Glaser, who thrives in the spotlight, Convy operates primarily behind the camera. He is an accomplished television producer with a resume that spans nearly two decades. His career began in the mid-2000s, working on high-profile events like the MTV Video Music Awards and Nickelodeon’s Kids' Choice Awards.

Convy’s expertise lies in live specials and comedy production. Over the years, he has produced massive projects such as The Little Mermaid Live! and the prestigious Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. Interestingly, both Glaser and Convy hail from St. Louis, a shared background that eventually played a massive role in their reconciliation during the global pandemic. He is often described by Glaser as being exceptionally confident, funny, and—much to her initial surprise—sober.

A meeting of minds: The 2013 origins

The story of Nikki Glaser and her boyfriend began in 2013 on the set of her first major television show, the MTV talk series Nikki & Sara Live. Convy was a producer on the show, and the connection was almost immediate, though Glaser admitted to being intimidated at first. In various interviews, she has compared their early dynamic to a real-life version of Jim and Pam from The Office, with her playing the role of the pining Jim.

One of the defining factors of their early attraction was sobriety. Having recently quit drinking herself, Glaser was hesitant to date anyone in the industry who lived a heavy-partying lifestyle. She initially assumed Convy’s high energy and humor were fueled by alcohol, but once she realized he was naturally that way while sober, she was hooked. This shared lifestyle choice became a foundational pillar of their bond.

Five breakups and a three-year gap

Labeling their relationship as "on-and-off" is an understatement. By Glaser’s own count, she and Convy have broken up at least five times over the last ten years. These gaps haven't just been weekend cooling-off periods; one particular split lasted for three full years.

Glaser has been incredibly candid about why they struggle to stay together. She has often cited a deep-seated fear of commitment as a primary driver. To her, the idea of "forever" can sometimes feel like a closed door to new adventures or an admission of "settling." This psychological barrier has led to multiple instances where the two decided to go their separate ways, only to find themselves drawn back together months or years later.

Another source of friction in the past was Glaser’s tendency to use their relationship as material for her podcast. In the heat of a moment, she would air grievances or detail their arguments under the guise of comedy. Convy, naturally, found it jarring to hear a version of himself portrayed on a public platform that didn't align with their private reality. Learning to communicate directly rather than through a microphone became a major turning point for the couple in recent years.

The St. Louis homecoming and the "Emergency Contact"

The pandemic in 2020 served as a massive reset for the couple. Like many others, Glaser moved back to her hometown of St. Louis. Convy, also a native, was there as well. This proximity led to a significant rekindling of their romance, much of which was captured on Glaser’s reality series, Welcome Home Nikki Glaser.

During the show’s finale, the pressure of their long-term, non-traditional status reached a boiling point. Glaser expressed a desire for more stability, even mentioning marriage. While a traditional diamond ring didn't emerge at that exact moment, Convy offered a gesture that was uniquely them: he asked her to be his official emergency contact. While it might sound trivial to outsiders, for a couple that had broken up five times, this was a massive symbolic step toward permanence.

Professional synergy: Working together while dating

One of the reasons their bond is so strong is their professional compatibility. Convy hasn't just been a boyfriend; he has been a key collaborator on some of Glaser’s most successful projects. He produced her 2016 Comedy Central series Not Safe with Nikki Glaser and has been involved in her recent comedy specials, including the acclaimed Someday You’ll Die.

This working relationship requires a high level of trust, especially given Glaser’s penchant for roasting the people she loves. Convy has reportedly given her "carte blanche" to joke about him on stage, provided the jokes are actually funny. This was evidenced during Glaser’s legendary performance at the Tom Brady Roast and her more recent monologue on Saturday Night Live in late 2025, where she poked fun at their height difference (he is 5'7") and joked about finding him in the "clearance rack" of men.

Monogamy, perfection, and the 2026 outlook

In the past, Glaser has openly discussed her curiosity about polyamory and non-traditional relationship structures. She once mentioned that she wouldn't mind if her partner had "flings," as long as there was no emotional connection. However, by 2022 and moving into 2026, she has leaned back into a monogamous mindset.

She recently shared a breakthrough regarding the concept of perfection. She realized that the fantasy of a "perfect" partner was preventing her from appreciating the very real, very supportive partner she already had. This shift toward acceptance has seemingly ushered in one of their longest "on" periods to date. Throughout the 2025 and 2026 awards seasons, where Glaser’s career has reached new heights as a two-time Golden Globes host, Convy has been a steady presence by her side at after-parties and industry events.

Marriage and the future

As of April 2026, fans shouldn't necessarily expect wedding bells in the traditional sense. Glaser has remained firm in her stance that she does not want biological children, a sentiment she has shared on the Today show and in her stand-up. She and Convy seem to have reached a comfortable middle ground where they are committed partners without needing the legal or societal labels that Glaser once feared.

Their relationship serves as a modern template for long-term partnership: it’s messy, it’s been tested by years of separation, and it’s built on a foundation of mutual professional respect and radical honesty. Whether they are living together in St. Louis or traveling for Glaser’s global comedy tours, the bond between Nikki Glaser and Chris Convy appears to be the most stable it has ever been.

In the world of celebrity gossip, where relationships often last only as long as a press tour, the thirteen-year history of Glaser and Convy is a rarity. They have navigated the transition from coworkers to lovers, from exes back to partners, and finally to a power couple in the comedy world. For now, the "boyfriend" in Nikki Glaser's life is exactly who it has been for most of her adult life—the man who knows her best and isn't afraid to let her tell the whole world about it for a laugh.